They remind you of what's normal in a relationship They encourage habits, activities, and attitudes that build a good marriage They provide a place to vent and work through everyday marital frustrations They confront wrong, foolish, illegal, and insensitive behavior They offer opportunities for fun and social interaction They bring new ideas for strengthening, improving, and revitalizing your marriage. Excerpted from 20 Rules and Tools for a Great Marriage by Dr. Steve Stephens,